ITS A GENERATIONAL PROBLEM

If an individual grows up in life with a mocking contemptible attitude toward their father, and despises to take instruction from their mother, they will lose their perception on right and wrong behaviors and have a difficult time establishing standards for themselves and their children.

In order for parents to successfully manage the behavior of their children, a connection needs to be made between their past and present relationship with their parents, and the development of a standard in their own life. Without a stable frame of reference to operate from, the parent reacts to his children and never teaches appropriate behaviors.

STEPS FOR CORRECTION

1. Work to restore your relationship with your parents.

2. Admit to your children that you have disciplined out of anger or reaction in the past and purpose to make changes in the future. Remember as soon as you purpose to change a test will come.